Dating Profile Makeover

by Grant Adams 

This is a special section exclusively for men — a raucous wake-up call place to learn one thing: success with women.

When I first started dating 6 long years ago, I had no idea how much fun it would be. I was terrified of being perceived as a failure in life. You know. Divorced. Broke. No self-esteem.

I spent 6,000 dollars on my first date because I couldn’t show up in my stupid old family minivan - so I bought a used Beemer. And all I got was a kiss at the door. In fact, she looked into my eyes and asked, “So, what’s the
protocol?” And I, knowing ZILCH, stammered something pointless. And got a kiss for my efforts. Not even any tongue. Just one dry kiss.

How times have changed…

That divorce was the gift that keeps on giving. It woke me up to possibility. To abundance. To the THOUSANDS of available women online. To new ways of internal-thinking, of interacting at parties, to things like White Tiger Tantra and and Red Tiger Tantra, Wombat Tantra, … ANY tantra!
And a huge part of the fun of being single has been meeting other guys in this special niche community. Not only you, but the other teachers, guys like Dave Wygant, David DeAngelo, Style, Lance Mason, Dr. Alex, Dr. Paul, Doc, Carlos Xuma, Steve P., Brent, my brother in Internet Dating Mastery, Dave M. and the original Obi-Wan of them all, Mr. Ross Jeffries - all powerful, curious, smart men determined to
crack the code.

And what have I learned for all this cracking, code and otherwise?

It’s simple: the best and easiest way to succeed in a natural, fun, relaxed way is to BE EXCITED ABOUT YOUR LIFE.

I invite you to become a part of The Complete Attractor, my gift to men, where you’ll hear my breakdown of the 7 areas of your life and how to energize them for maximum attractor-factor… and yeah, by the way - having a great life while you’re here.

It’s ALL ABOUT having a great life.

* Breaking through thought patterns that are limiting you.
* Experimenting with new hidden personae within you already.
* Pushing your EDGES in every way to shake off any sloth in your mind, body or spirit.

Divorce was my great divine Kick In the Pants.

We all need it from time to time.
I will do everything in my power to help kick your pants in any way that helps you break into new levels of success this next year.

As always, helping with internet dating and of course Erotic Mastery.
But also with the first ever West Coast Conference on Deep Attraction.
More to come on that.

For now, here are a few KEYWORDS to start your New Year right.
May they serve to you having a year of abundance… and a bun dance. Or two.

1) FREEDOM. You are single. You get to experiment with your persona, your modes of dress and expression. You are absolutely free to try new adventures, try out new voices, hone whatever intellectual, social or sexual skill or fantasy that intrigues you without having to make apologies or excuses or even explanations to ANYONE.
This is the time for you to CREATE YOU. Your growth and your best self. Then you get to bring that core strength into any relationship.
It is the strength of your conviction about how to live your highest goals that will not only draw women to you, but also allow them to flourish and follow THEIR highest goals - within your strong container. Stand for your HIGHEST goals. And you will attract the devotion of the coolest, most grounded, most trusting, most devotional women who know how to treat and support a man who is on his path.

Alternatively, you can skate on the surface of pick-up, which will get Chlamydia from bar girls Your choice.

2) INTERNET - I’ve said it before and I’ll shout it forever - Internet dating is God’s gift to men. No bar bills. No hidden boyfriends at home. No crowded bars or clubs. No bovine best friends or cockblockers to swoop in at closing time to ruin your night.
Just page after page of women who are PAYING to meet guys.
Match.com is great. True.com is a rip off. eHarmony.com is a scam.

3) DEIDA - the Master. If you don’t really grok him at first read, read him again.
If you haven’t bought his book, The Way of the Superior Man, go to Amazon now and just buy it. Introducing you to this book alone may be the single best favor I’ve ever done for you.
He will give you levels of understanding yourself and women that you can’t get anywhere else.

4) EroticMastery - Of all the programs I’ve done, of all the research I’ve done, this may be the most unique - and perhaps most helpful. Think about it - what’s the point of attracting women if you’re just average in bed?
Be as expert erotically as you are in attraction skills.

5) SOCIAL CRIME NETWORK - do you have iTunes?
Go to iTunes Radio, click on comedy and open the free standup comedy network, Social Crime Network. Joe Rogan, Doug Stanhope, Bob Saget, George Carlin, Richard Pryor and lesser talents - comics who will not only keep you laughing but who draw humor from truth. They are mind-habit breakers.
Write down the best lines.

Laughter is serious business. It’s good for you. Listening to comedy keeps your happy hormones flowing - which makes you more attractive. And also - if you get XM Radio - National Lampoon Radio, 154. I have a hand in that one. Laugh a lot. Have good lines stored up.

Life is good. Go to your edges. Take action. Break habits. Gain new skills. Get energized.

BE THE RIDE that women want to get on. The women will flow naturally in your direction. And you don’t even need to wear a big furry hat.

Grant Adams’ goal, as founder of “The Fearless Lover”, is to effectuate, (for himself as well as for others!), a buoyant life of diminished fear in all its forms, and a continuous opening of the heart into deeper, broader love as a daily practice — no matter what.Most important of all, Grant is the single father of two astonishing young men, whose powerful and loud music can be found at myspace.com/bygpyg and in neighbors’ houses for a radius of half a mile.